I am reminded of a client who always verbally says how sick she is. I have told her, as others have, that changing the pattern of negative speak to positive affirmations of good health would better serve her. Saying “my” illness puts that notion of ownership into the ether that, once out there, is hard to dispel... like putting a genie back in a bottle. Often, I stop myself from acknowledging my own pain. It’s hard not to dwell on what’s wrong. It has always been difficult to concoct that image of good health I so desperately want. But then I came across Emotional Freedom Technique, or EFT, also known as Tapping.
Like acupuncture and acupressure, Tapping is a set of techniques which utilize the body’s energy meridian points. You can stimulate these meridian points by tapping on them with your fingertips – literally tapping into your body’s own energy and healing power. This tapping method first asks that, while tapping various meridians on the face, scalp, and upper body with your fingertips, you acknowledge out loud whatever issue is troubling you, acknowledge yourself as worthy of change, and then visualize yourself in a better situation.
I wasn’t convinced about this method that seemed to go against all my “keep it positive” training until I listened to my idol, Louise L. Hay, the author of “You Can Heal Your Life” and so many other books about positive thinking and affirmations, give her endorsement.
In an interview with Nick Orton, the founder of the EFT movement, she says, “If you’re going to clean a house you have to see the dirt." That stuck with me.
Acknowledging pain is not a bad thing. Acknowledging any problem is the first step
to overcoming it. It engages with the energy of the issue so you can work with it.
On his website he lays out the method step by step.
If you watch the videos I reference here, you’ll be able to try it for yourself. I’ve seen it used with participants in a workshop about horse training and mental health. I’ve seen it used with the sick and dying to help with pain and the fear of death. It’s something to behold.
If you have an old habit just aching to be dumped at the curb and you don’t know where to begin, maybe tapping is the place. You can even tap for someone else’s problem. Start small and see how it can help you.
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Vera Remes |
Vera's Vave'n - The many aspects of Shamanism
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